What I learnt about life and death from our darling cat friend

Recently, I lost a friend who is very dear to me and I miss him very much.
And many days in the month of June, I have cried a lot because he is no longer with us. But in all the pain of losing a friend, I have received a tremendous gift...a priceless gift that has instilled in me a deep understanding of life and death that will stay with me all my life.

This friend is Mr. Minou, a gorgeous feline who became my fur-baby in April 2014. He was a month shy of his 17th birthday which as you animal-lovers know, is a long life for cats in general. He was fortunate to be loved and adored by a wonderful family in New York City for his first 16 years. We were fortunate to have him in our home for his final retirement year after his original family faced insurmountable challenges and had to look for a loving family to take care of.

He was here to heal us humans and he did that beautifully. With him in our home, we had zero arguments or disagreements between Cristof and myself. Now we remind ourselves by saying, "what would Minou do?" And we would know exactly how to behave. He was never upset with us, always showed his compassionate side and if he did not like something, he simply walked away! What a zen master he was and we remember his teachings as if he was a human zen master. So clear, needing no words!

Wow! what an inspiration.