Forgive Yourself

The intention for today is Forgive Yourself.

Today, forgive yourself for any wrong doing. Give yourself a hug. Let go of guilt and self-reproach talk. You always do the best you can, in every circumstance. There is always room for progress, so let it go.

Thank you Forgiveness for showing us where to let go.

PS: Forgiving yourself may be the best thing you ever do for yourself, besides forgiving others!

Making Friends With Resistance

Do you encounter resistance? Resistance! This sticky substance that keeps your feet planted, your fingers glued and your tongue tied. It leaves you with inertia, a state of being at rest unless propelled forward (although we are constantly in motion according to quantum physics!). You know it, right? If you said "no", you are free of it. Yippee! You, please go NOW and celebrate! We are joining you at the end of this article! Those of you who are not there yet, you know what I am talking about, right?

I have been feeling resistance to my writing lately. Yes, on the first anniversary of the reflections blog, resistance is still showing up. It is this voice that says, "what does it matter! Who is reading your blog/newsletter, anyway?" Or  "You don't have anything to share this week. Wait for some more juicy stuff next week." And on and on. This is the voice of resistance. It wants to test me. It wants me to show it that I really care about my writing, that I am passionate about it to the extent that I will ignore its' voice. So, it pushes where it hurts most, the delicate points, the no-go zone. It knows exactly where to press the buttons. It pops up unexpectedly, without pre-warning! Just when you are thinking, I have got it down on its knees, it rears its face again. 

And for me, resistance shows up most often in exactly those areas where it matters. Resistance to washing dishes or doing the laundry is something that eventually catches up to you and you know when you are running low on fresh clothing that it is time to finally do the laundry. But how about matters that really matter for your entire life? You know, life purpose and contribution and sense of fulfillment- that kind of thing? How do you know it is time to get your act together? I guess, it also catches up to you. There comes a time when you look at the life you are living and it shows you exactly how far you have come. And when the desire to be somewhere else is strong, the where-you-are-now becomes a source of a new kind of resentment. You know? When we dislike where we are, or are screaming on the top of our lungs about what we don't like about our current life, it is resistance to the NOW of our lives. It is just another type of resistance.

So we can count and share all the different ways resistance shows up for us. The question then arises is why is it there and what to do about it? Ah, great questions to start off with. It seems to me that resistance shows us what matters to us. That important phone call to make, that creative project to start/finish, that blissful place to go to, that joyous event to attend, that inspiring Sunday Reflections to write ;-), that awesome bicycle ride to go on, that legendary memoir to write, that business idea to implement, that self-care action to take, that hour of extra sleep to have, and on and on the list goes. These are the type of important, very important things that we resist. We resist that which is good for us. We resist our own growth and our own success.

So, that is why it is there? Simply to show us what is important? Or perhaps, to show us we are really serious and committed every time we overcome the resistance. Or to inspire our creativity in some amazing way. It is there as a tool for our growth. And there may be many other reasons why it is there. Yet, it is crucial now for us to consider what to do about it:

First, ACKNOWLEDGE IT.

When a child has just tripped and starts to cry, as soon as a parent or older brother or sister comes running to give it their love and attention, the child very soon tends to stop crying. His crying was way louder than how much it hurt! Just like that, resistance is way louder that it actually is hurting us. By running towards it, giving it the love and attention it is asking for, we can help it to fade. So, when you have some resistance showing up, acknowledge it in the best possible way you know how. Just recognize that it is there. Stay with it for a little while, and see it disappear. It can be as simple as saying: "Ah, that looks like resistance!"

Second, THANK IT.

When resistance hits, thank it. There is always a higher purpose for everything. So the resistance has appeared for some higher purpose that you may not know right now. Just trust that it has a role to play in your growth, and for the long run, it is important that you go through it. So just thank it. "Resistance, I thank you for helping me on my journey of growth and prosperity."

Third, RELEASE IT.

After you have acknowledged resistance by becoming aware of it and thanked it for being there, release it. You can do this, for example, by journaling a few lines about the resistance. Write down on paper that can be later destroyed. Just take five or 10 minutes and write without stopping. Write all that wants to come on to the paper. Let the words run. Let them flow on the paper. Stop only when you know that it is time to stop. Then, safely destroy the paper.

Fourth, PRAY FOR IT.

Resistance is your friend. It comes into your life, shows you some life lessons and then disappears. You can send it off with a prayer like this one: "I am sorry for all the moments when I ignored you, resistance. I am sorry for not paying you the attention you wanted. I thank you for being in my life only as long as is needed for my highest good. I love you for your persistence and dedication to my growth and happiness. I am truly grateful to have gotten to know you. May you serve your purpose wherever you go. Thank you and Farewell."

This process of befriending resistance can be beneficial to you and to all those who come in contact with you. So, make friends with resistance. It can be powerful and transformational.

So how does resistance show up for you? What does it look like? What is it trying to tell you? What does if want your attention for? And how does it go away? Share you insights for us all.

Share

The Intention for Today is Share.

Today share something. Sharing is a beautiful way to express the notion that we are all one. When we give to another, we are giving to ourselves. Open the gates of Flow.

Thank you Share for showing us abundance.

PS: Sharing need not be material, all though it can be. A personal story, experience or vulnerability when shared and expressed does mountains to bring people together.

Listen

The Intention for Today is Listen.

Today, listen to the voice within you. Take a moment or two or twenty and just be still with yourself. There is a message that is urgently itching to emerge. Quiet your mind and open up to the wisdom.

Thank you Listen for enabling us to receive.

PS: Sometimes messages are not loud but subtle, not in words but in feelings, not apparent yet revealing. You may not even be aware that a message came through, but you will still have a kind of a knowing.

Learn

The Intention for Today is Learn.

Today, be open to learning. Learning something about yourself can be like a double-edged sword. It can be painful to reveal a truth and in the same instant it is liberating. Be open to learning today.

Thank you Learn for showing us what we know.

PS: Learning can also be fun. If you can laugh at your so called follies and foibles, you give yourself a tremendous gift.

Enjoy

The Intention for Today is Enjoy.

Today, just take the time to enjoy yourself. Make the best of every moment. Bring love and laughter and joy into your life and thus, in the life of everyone you touch. Start with a gentle smile.

Thank you Enjoy for helping us live the good life.

PS: Enjoy has the word joy all wrapped up in it. Be IN JOY! How? Just bring to mind things to be happy and joyful about. For example, your breath. For example, all that is beautiful in your experience. Gratitude and Joy are often in close proximity of each other.



Patience

The Intention for Today is Patience.

Today, take things step by step. Allow your patient self to shine. Love it and embrace. The seeds that you planted are blossoming. Enjoy the show as they gradually emerge into their fullness.

Thank you Patience for showing us the magic of time.

PS: There is another twist to patience. An old chinese saying goes like this: The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is NOW! Wonderful, right?

Love Yourself

The intention for today is Love Yourself.

Today, become aware of something about you that you are unforgiving, impatient or angry about. Allow yourself to feel all of that. Then consciously let go of it by saying, "Even though, I perceive myself as XYZ (put in that which you are upset, unforgiving or impatient about), I love myself unconditionally." Try it. Do it in private in front of a mirror, no one needs to know it!

Thank you Love for loving so deeply.

PS: Love is the answer. Let us love ourselves as a starting point. As Mother Teresa said,"A smile is the beginning of peace." Give yourself a smile as a first step to loving yourself deeply and completely.

Falling in Love with Yourself.

Recently, we went for a drive up on the Pisgah Mountain. As we were driving and slurping up the delicious grand views, I realised that I was scrambling to sense the orientation to the place. I have by now travelled to various parts of the mountains, accessing them from different entry points. Although I can find my way to the mountain, once I am there, I feel a little lost. There are so many overlook points to view the sky and valleys and after a while in my mind there is just one huge ambiguous blurr of mountains, mountain roads, valleys and vistas. They seem to merge and blend into each other. Then I look next to me to my chief navigator who has all the details of the place implanted in his subconscious with every hidden alley and mountain passage that he can quickly refer to. Although, I feel blessed to have my husband sitting next to me in the co-pilot seat with all the directions ready, I become impatient with my own self. I too want to know the mountain roads like the back of my hand. I too want to understand the network of pathways inside out. And this impatience does not really feel very good.

There are instances like that for all of us, when we are impatient with ourselves or judge and criticize ourselves. We put unimaginable pressures to be Mr. Perfect or Ms. Perfect and in the end, are not more than tired, stressed and discontent. I realise that this whole situation with the mountain roads is a really good example of where I can love myself even more deeply and unconditionally. It is here I can say to myself, "I love you just the way you are. Even though, it takes longer for you to understand the road system than you would like, I still love you. You are absolutely gorgeous, smart, loving and compassionate. And you are loved." Yes, at first glance, it feels silly to say this to myself. But this is precisely how it feels when you are beginning to love yourself completely, fully, unconditionally! It feels silly to say such things because we may have not heard this kind of self-talk a lot before. Yet, we must let go of that resistance to love ourselves. We need to move from talking heartlessly to speaking heartfully with our inner self.

Besides, how can we give others love, compassion, trust and all our beatiful gifts, if we have not given them to ourselves first. How can we give something we don't have?

To recognize how deeply we love ourselves we can notice how we treat ourselves: how easily we forgive ourselves for our errors, how deeply we trust ourselves to navigate this life, how patient we are with our so called "shortcomings" and how seriously we care for our well-being. I believe that our errors, mistakes and shortcomings are just part of the learning process and they are vital for our growth. Next time, you make a "mistake" or don't think you can do something or are impatient with yourself, take a moment of reflection. Switch modes and dive deeply into unconditional love for yourself.

Love,
Sophia

Vista

The Intention for Today is Vista.

Today, indulge in the grand vista. Go up to a place with a view. Or close your eyes and visualize a huge field or vast landscapes of oceans, forests or mountains. Expand with your mind's eye today.

Thank you Vista for opening up the horizon for us.

PS: Remember to embed beautiful images in your mind's eye every time you see it. This is the fuel for your visualizations later on.

Song

The Intention for Today is Song.

Today, hum, sing, dance to your favorite music. Take some time to sing a tune or hum along songs that move, uplift or entertain. Feel the vibrations. Embrace the song.

Thank you Song for pulsating through us!

PS: Open yourself to the sounds of the universe.

Buzzing

The Intention for Today is Buzzing.

Today, feel and enjoy the buzzing within you. What new creations are waiting to take form? What new experiences are you about to feel? And in what new ways are you going to serve others? Feel the joy and excited anticipation of all that is on its way to emerge in your life.

Thank you Buzzing for all the buzz about the new and amazing!

PS: The feeling of anticipation for all things new is to be cherished, enjoyed and treasured in the deepest ways. Stay with it and take guidance on the next steps. Things are changing very quickly around here. ;-)

Capable

The Intention for Today is Capable.

Today, know that you have all that you need within you. You are infinitely blessed and infinitely lucky and infinitely filled with genius, love and strength. A wise soul recently said to me, "You are more capable than you think you are." I think this applies to all of us, doesn't it?

Thank you Capable for helping us to bring our contribution to this world.

PS: Anything you want, you can have it. Anything you want to create, you can create it. Anyway you want to serve, you can do it. You are CAPABLE!

Absorb

The Intention for Today is Absorb.

Today absorb into yourself that pristine, untamed, wild nature. This Nature that blossoms to a rhythm that is complete with divine timing, stands as a reminder that within you is all that you need. Absorb the abundance, the love and embrace all that is YOU!

Thank you Absorption for integrating our own beauty.

PS: Think about a comment of admiration and praise the you heard from someone or from yourself today. Instead of just bypassing it, absorb this statement of love and admiration fully within yourself. Allow yourself to be showered in such an outpouring of acknowledgement. Give that to your self, today.

Expansion

The Intention for Today is Expansion.

Today feel expansion in your consciousness. Take a moment to tap into that which is unending, unlimited and infinite. Expand your comfort zone in whatever way possible. That is where your highest self expresses and creates even more fully for this world.

Thank you Expansion for opening us up for creation. 

PS: One way of tapping into the infinite is to observe the breath as it moves through you. Do this as often as you can throughout your day and feel the expansiveness within you.

Cullasaja Waterfalls

Enjoy these beautiful images of the waterfalls that we visited today!

The bountiful waterfall of CullasajaCascading gusto of Cullasaja Falls 

Waterfall

The Intention for Today is Waterfall.

Like the waterfall, blossom into your own today with life, glory and glamour. Take charge of your Emergence with confidence, grace and humility. Like the waterfall, let go, surrender, and trust. Become the waterfall today.

Thank you Waterfall for showing us humility in grandeur.

PS: Today is the day to let go of some old patterns and beliefs that no longer work for you. Acknowledge them, connect with them and dissolve. Trust in your inner knowing, today.

Circle of Love

Water gushing through the woods, meandering its way into a cascading waterfall! This is the image of the Cullasaja Falls that I had the privilege of experiencing today. The majesty and splendor of the water is forever embedded in my consciousness.

To me it represents the abundance that exists. The sounds of the waterfall envelope you in such complete ways that there is no room for thought, all noise is dissolved and absorbed. Each drop of water seems destined to make it all the way here from the mountain top; emerging from nooks and crannies and cracks and holes in the rock walls; forming creeks and streams; and then finally dropping down in complete surrender down the cliff. And in the next moment, the aftereffect of the descent, is a beautiful flow of water gurgling as it meets rocks and glistening with sunshine.

An encounter of this kind drowns the intensity of time, leaving only the present moment. The moment that is all-encompassing, filled with all and everything. It smoothes into and within every cell of our being, with an affect that is healing and cleansing. This moment connects us to that which is omniscient, relieving us from the mundanity of human civilization that is disconnected from nature's cycle, at least for that very instant of rapture.

This to me is the Circle of Love. Enveloped in its warmth and wonder, I invite you to find or revisit your version of the Circle of Love.

Love,

Sophia

Fog

The Intention for Today is Fog.

Experience the mystical fog today. Imagine moving through the milky enigma that envelopes the land, lakes, river and mountain tops in the early morning hours. Allow the fog within our consciousness to become awe-inspiring and something of wonder.

Thank you Fog for showing us a glimpse of mystic nature.

PS: Expose yourself to some element of nature like the fog that inspires you to get accustomed to new points of reference.

Share

The Intention for Today is Share.

Today, share something about yourself to someone. Express who you are in your unique way and enrich the life of another. Speak, create and communicate in a way that allows your gifts to take form. Share Your Gifts Today.

Thank you Share for being a medium for Universal Flow of Life.

PS: An idea for giving someone a gift is to give someone something you are fond of. It will have an impression of you all over it and in this way you are sharing yourself.